by Howard B. Richman
Having a quality romantic partner in life is one of the most fulfilling experiences we can ever have. So often our romantic relationships are influenced by imbalanced and UNHEALED parts of our own being. So the resulting relationship is filled with great difficulty. Obviously, there is much work that you can do to work on healing the past traumas and events that cause this imbalance. ONE of the things that you can do are focused affirmations geared for relationship.
Each affirmation is stated with a companion explanation. The only reason the explanations are included is to provide support and clarity of why each affirmation has value. HOWEVER, please do not keep reading or focus on the explanation as this will tend to counteract the benefit of the affirmation itself. After you read through all the affirmations and their explanation, if you scroll down you will see a duplicate list below, WITHOUT the explanations. This will be handy to select and to print out or to customize for use in your daily routine.
The following affirmations are also available as a card pack, to be used with the Thought Catapulter system.
In ADDITION to these affirmations, you may find the need to have something customized just for your situation. That is the reason that each Thought Catapulter comes with a pack of blank cards. Please follow these guidelines on generating affirmations for best results. Also, it is recommended that you do the “primary abundance affirmations” to help set the flow of good things your way, regardless of any other goal.
Make Sure to Read Each of the Following Articles Before You Begin This Process, to Maximize Your Understanding and to Gain the Greatest Results
How to Benefit Most From the Thought Catapulter
How to do Affirmations Effectively
How to Generate Affirmations
Relationship Affirmations
(Please see Other Affirmations)
I am loveable.
We spend so much of our lives feeling not good enough and unworthy. If WE don’t think we are lovable, it is doubtful that someone ELSE would! The point of this affirmation, as well as any affirmation is to state what it is that you would LIKE to manifest, even if it may not feel “true” at first.
I deserve a healthy relationship.
Sometimes we justify why we have to suffer… “I’m too old.” “I don’t have enough money.” “I’m not attractive enough.” “No one wants a single parent.” “I’m a bad risk as I’ve already been married two times before.” “I’m a bad risk as I’ve never been in a long-term relationship.” These are just examples of how negative we tend to be and then by continuing to be alone, we PROVE THESE STATEMENTS TRUE, because humans like to be RIGHT! Just let it all go… Let it all go. Really. Start with a clean slate and know that you deserve to have a wonderful relationship. I like the word “healthy” because it implies that it is working well. It implies give and take, both ways, just like BREATHING, in and out. It implies that it is effortless.
She/he is here with me now.
Of course, narrow down the pronoun to what you are seeking! So often we envision… “after I move,” “after I get my new job,” “after I’m done taking care of my mom,” after my kids move out.” after, after, after. Do you see that you may have been inadvertently “programming-in” a FUTURE experience into your subconscious. But the subconscious mind functions in the NOW. So saying that your loved one is NOW HERE is very powerful.
My true soulmate is so grateful to have found me.
I like to think that for all your effort on finding the right person, that person is also doing an EQUAL effort and this affirmation addresses that. By stating this affirmation, you are broadcasting to the universe your willingness and readiness to RECEIVE such a person into your life. If you don’t like the word “soulmate,” you can change it to whatver you want… “lover,” “wife,” “husband,” “partner,” etc.
Thank you, GOD, for all my gifts and that I’ve had time to work on myself.
If you don’t like the word “GOD,” you can swap it for a word that honors your belief system… “universe,” “spirit guides,” “higher self,” etc. The main point here is that expressing GRATITUDE for the time that we have had being alone, or even in a current horrible relationship, which is also virtually as if you are ALONE, has a great value. (Normally people are frustrated and angry about being alone and this negative energy does not help you attract a good person into your life.) By expressing gratitude for this alone time that you have been going through, you are honoring the fact that you have grown and learned things, and have had experiences that you would never have been able to have if you were in a great relationship! Think about that. Also by expressing gratitude, you TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for your current situation. Why is this useful? Because it is empowering. When you agree that you, and only you are responsible for your current situation, you now are claiming control of your life and now you can CREATE what you REALLY want!
Thank you, GOD that my romantic soulmate is now in my life!
By putting this affirmation in the PRESENT TIME, it states to the universe that it has ALREADY HAPPENED! This is the language that you need in order to properly communicate with your subconscious mind.
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I am loveable.
I deserve a healthy relationship.
She is here with me now.
He is here with me now.
My true soulmate is so grateful to have found me.
Thank you, GOD, for all my gifts and that I’ve had time to work on myself.
Thank you, GOD that my romantic soulmate is now in my life!
